I have met too many successful people who are unhappy. They achieved their goals — the promotion, the revenue target, the market expansion — and discovered that the achievement felt empty. Not because the goals were wrong in a technical sense, but because they were disconnected from what the person actually values.
SMART goals are a powerful framework for execution. But execution of the wrong priorities is just productive misalignment. In Where Is Your Why?, I argue that effective goal-setting must begin not with targets but with values.
Values Before Goals
In the Formula I lay out, twelve personal values serve as the compass that directs your goal-setting: Accountability, Character, Competitive Spirit, Courage, Creativity, Empathy, Humility, Inclusiveness, Loyalty, the Platinum Rule, Work Ethic, and Teamwork.
Before you set a SMART goal, ask: Which of my values does this goal serve? If a goal does not connect to at least one core value, it is either the wrong goal or it needs to be reframed until the connection is clear.
The Alignment Test
Here is a practical exercise. List your top five goals for the next twelve months. Next to each one, write the personal value it serves. If you cannot identify a clear value connection, that goal deserves scrutiny. It may be something you think you should want rather than something you actually want.
Goals aligned with values produce sustainable motivation. When the inevitable obstacles arise — and they will — the values connection gives you a reason to persist that transcends the goal itself. "I am pushing through this because it serves my commitment to continuous growth" is more sustaining than "I am pushing through this because it was on my goal list."
The 40 Precepts
Between your values and your SMART goals, there is a practical bridge: what I call the 40 Precepts. These are actionable guidelines — organized alphabetically from Aspire to Zero In — that translate abstract values into daily behaviors. They answer the question: "If I hold this value, what do I actually do today?"
When your foundation is strong (Six Pillars), your values are clear (twelve values), your daily actions are guided (40 Precepts), and your targets are specific (SMART goals), you have a complete system that produces not just achievement but meaningful achievement.
Build your complete success formula
The Where Is Your Why? course on WingdaleHarbors.com walks you through every layer — the Six Pillars, twelve values, forty precepts, and your Personal Plan of Attack with SMART goals. Also available: browse the book collection for the complete source material.
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